Monday, March 24, 2008

Patience

Patience is a virtue. I wonder who came up with that saying sometimes. Patience is a trait that is very hard to accomplish when you have people doing everything they can in their power as a human being to wear down your patience and bring you to your breaking point.

There will always be those people in life who will want to bring you down. It is just a fact of life and I have come to terms with that. Although, just thinking of all of the patience I will have to have just to get through the remaining years of my life, makes them wear thin thinking about it now. When someone wants something their way and they aren't getting it their way and they see you as the cause if this disruption in their life force, they will begin to do subconscious things to get back at you or to sabotage you in some way. Instead of just coming to you with the issue like a normal adult should and would they recess to child-like tactics and begin to try to you in the manners as a such would.

I notice more and more lately how there are so many adults who act just like little children when they do not get their way. It astonishes me, their infantile behavior. It is okay to be angry when you aren't happy about a situation but voice your frustrations in an adult manner.

We should all ask for patience with ourselves, others, life... just everything in general. Learning not to sweat the small stuff makes life such a smoother ride. Learn that you can choose to see things as black and white if you want to. Cut out the bad and stick with the good and better things will begin to come your way. Misery loves company but it isn't getting mine.

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