A Truth Revealed

Sometimes it takes one person to take on a hint of success to cripple everyone that surrounds them. It isn't enough to be proud for someone and their achievements, but rather, those who witness one begin to succeed must to all they can to disable their efforts in order to prove to themselves that they are not worthless. Females are the worst in this situation... and feminine men are right along side them. It is impossible for females to co mingle with each other in a social or work environment without jealously rearing its ugly head at some point. A woman cannot physically or emotionally accept when another woman around them is receiving more praise or attention. It is like something begins to block the pathways of logic and compromise in their brains, causing them to become slightly insane in a way.

When someone around you begins to move forward and you seem to remain stagnant, why point fingers and blame at others when it is most likely you that is deficient and lacking the will to succeed? Rather than owning up to the fact that maybe you haven't yet met the qualifications to receive a certain reward and you need to work on becoming better in whatever area you are neglecting within yourself. No one can do this for another person. To become envious and attempt to sabotage another person for not accepting mediocrity is pathetic and asinine.

What exactly can be accomplished and provoke a positive outcome by bringing down those that surround you rather that pushing yourself up to a higher level? Anyone who attempts or accomplishes injuring a person's success or sabotaging their achievements in anyway should be ashamed of their self and come to realize that their is truly a reason why they will never make it further than where they currently stand. To deliberately cause another person anguish in order to make yourself feel better... this is simply incomprehensible to me. This type of behavior pushes those who do care to simply become untrusting and cold. For if those who you trust will attempt to ruin you or what you are attempting to gain in life, then to whom do you turn. There isn't anyone else. Then those who did care, well, they begin to trust in no one. I think that hardening someones heart is one of the worst crimes against persons that can be committed. Physical wounds can heal... but the emotional wounds last forever.

Some days, witnessing such childish behavior is more bearable than others. Some days, however, I wish I could make people see how what they do truly effects others in deep and long lasting ways. It is saddening and disheartening. Life is life. Live it the best and most positive way that you can. It isn't always easy to make the right decision. If you follow the golden rule you may stay on the right track... treat others the way you would want to be treated. Would you want someone conspiring to hurt you because of an inferiority complex they may be experiencing? I doubt it. Move on and gain your ground in a positive way. If you have to hurt others to get what you want then it is probably something that you shouldn't have.